Sunday, February 1
12pm | 10th Muses Sunday Brunch 10th Muses invites queer, lesbian, and nonbinary community members (30+) to a lively Sunday brunch and exquisite culinary experience. Each ticket includes a full brunch menu (with vegan options), sides, cocktails, and a gift bag, with space to connect whether you come solo or with friends. | The Ivory Peacock, NoMad →→→
1pm | Lesbian Hands Scan Day Want to show us your lesbian hands? Pull up and get scanned. Bring your carabiners, lighters, Sonny Angels, Aquaphor—whatever lives in your pockets. There’ll be space for crafting and collaging, plus lesbian hands merch, zines, and the first-ever Lesbian Hands tanks. First come, first served for scans, merch, and maybe even a meet-cute. | Boyfriend Co-op, Bushwick →→→
1pm | Queer Knit Club A cozy afternoon of knitting, coffee, and community. Bring your latest project, chat about yarn and life, and enjoy a welcoming space for all skill levels and fiber arts. Allies welcome. ✨☕🧵 | Principles Coffee House, Gowanus →→→
6:45pm | Tiny Arts Queer Speed Dating: Sapphic 35+ Skip the apps and meet face-to-face at this cozy queer speed dating night for sapphic folks 35+. Come connect, flirt, and make new friends in a warm, welcoming space designed for real conversation and genuine chemistry. Whether you’re looking for love, friendship, or something unexpected—this night is for you. ✨🌈 | Ocelot, Ridgewood →→→
7:30pm | SAPPHEST Volume IV — NYC’s Premier Sapphic Playwriting Festival Get ready, babes — SAPPHEST is BACK for its fourth, fiercest year! NYC’s ultimate sapphic playwriting competition + festival returns with bold new works, electric performances, surprise announcements, and all the queer creative energy you crave. | Brooklyn Art Haus, East Williamsburg →→→
Monday, February 2
5pm | HoneyTeddy Productions Presents: A Queer BIPOC and Poly Mixer ✨ CONNECT. FLIRT. BUILD. ✨ This is an intentional, upscale mixer for BIPOC Queer, and Trans humans who want real connection beyond the apps. Whether you are solo poly, partnered & poly or ENM, dating, or simply craving community, you belong here. | Lagos, Times Square →→→
7pm | UNO Night The cards are back! Come through for a fun, community-packed UNO night with friendly competition, prizes, and cozy queer vibes—now with a more official tournament format.🎲 | Boyfriend Co-op, Bushwick →→→
8pm | Not a Boy, Not a Girl: Comedy-Variety Show A monthly Queer Comedy-Variety Show featuring some of the best LGBTQ+ Performers in the city! Get ready for a night filled with laughter, food, drinks, and unforgettable queer performances. Don’t miss out on this incredible event! Crystal Lake Brooklyn, Williamsburg →→→
Wednesday, February 4
6:30pm | Life and Soul presents: Date with Death Valentine’s Day is about love. And what is planning for your death if not an act of love? A 2-hour interactive workshop where we flip the Valentine’s Day script and talk about the biggest kind of love there is—the kind that faces mortality head-on and says, “I care about you enough to make this easier when the time comes.” | Boyfriend co-op, Bushwick →→→
Thursday, February 5
6:30pm | Queer Bingo @ Soft Bar + Cafe Join the hangout for a playful night of bingo, flirting, and sipping expertly crafted NA cocktails. With prizes from Unbound Babes and plenty of chances to mix, mingle, and win, this is the perfect midweek queer meetup. ✨| Soft Bar + Cafe, Bushwick →→→
Outclose: Thursday Dinner Connections Find your table, meet your people. Dinner with 4 LGBTQ+ strangers. Every Week. A place to belong shouldn’t be left to chance. Your table is intentionally matched for real connection. Sapphic only tables available. | Williamsburg or Chelsea →→→
7pm | Queer Pong: Meet the League Pre-Season Party with Let’s Fucking Gather Queer Pong teams up with Let’s Fucking Gather for a pre-season meetup and party. Play pong (water only), meet the crew, and see if the league is your vibe before the season kicks off—less frat basement, more queer house party 🌈 | Blazers Sports Bar, Williamsburg →→→
8pm | Love on the Rink – Woodshop Night A sapphic & queer Valentine’s roller-skating party with 80s disco vibes, DJs, drag performances, dancing, and playful relationship-status stickers. Phones off, live in the moment—disposable cameras provided to capture the magic.💖🛼 | Xanadu Roller Arts, Bushwick →→→
Friday, February 6
7pm | LEZ HEAL **REST & RESET HEALING CIRCLE This gentle two-hour evening gathering is created to help you unwind after the rush of the season. Through reflection, shared conversation, a sound bath, and Reiki healing, participants will release stress and tension, soothe the body, reconnect to themselves, and welcome the new year with clarity and ease. All are welcome. No experience is needed—just an open heart to share. 🌿 | Upsoul Center, Chelsea →→→
10pm | Dykes Against ICE: A Night of Resistance & Queer Power Dykes and queers unite for a high-energy night of dancing, lit performances, and radical joy at The House. This pop-up strip club party brings resistance to the dance floor—celebrating queerness, community, and liberation through movement and music. Come twerk, sweat, and fight back with love and attitude. 🌈💃 | The House, Bushwick→→→
Saturday, February 7
2pm | Allergy Season Valentine’s Market Extravaganza Shop queer vendors, art, sweets, and gifts while sipping drinks and soaking up Valentine’s vibes. Featuring a matchmaking booth and fundraising for anti-ICE organizations—plus stay after for Ginger’s dance party. ❤️ | Ginger’s Bar, Park Slope →→→
9pm | OLD BAE 30+ Party Same great taste, grown vibes only. Hip-hop, R&B, and pop all night at one of Brooklyn’s fave dance floors. Sounds by Highgnx & DJ Dimple.💃 | The Bush, Bushwick →→→
10pm | BDAY Bounce Want some cake? THIQUE, the event series for plus-size queer people, is back and turning 1 this month so we’re throwing a birthday party🎉! Get ready for a dance party featuring body jigglin’ beats from your favorite plus-size queer DJs. | As You Are, Prospect Heights →→→
10pm | Jazbah: Queer Prom — Do the Most Get ready to dance the night away at Jazbah’s Queer Prom! Come as you are—or fully do the most—for a night of music, live performances, and unapologetic queer celebration on the dance floor. | Sugar Mouse NYC, Lower East Side →→→
Sunday February 8
7pm | Queer Rope Social Step into a warm, affirming space made for queer connection, curiosity, and creativity. Queer Rope Social is a monthly rope jam welcoming beginners and experienced folks alike to explore rope bondage/shibari in a friendly, consent-centered environment. Come solo or with a partner—this is all about learning, sharing skills, and building community. | WOW Cafe Theatre, East Village →→→
3pm | POC Munch – LSM Presents A casual POC-only munch hosted by LSM. Come meet, chat, and connect with kinky queers of color in a relaxed, welcoming space. Look for the LSM table sign when you arrive. Free with RSVP. ❤️🔥 | Boyfriend Co-Op, Buhwick →→→
Monday, February 9
5pm | HoneyTeddy Productions Presents: A Queer BIPOC and Poly Mixer ✨ CONNECT. FLIRT. BUILD. ✨ This is an intentional, upscale mixer for BIPOC Queer, and Trans humans who want real connection beyond the apps. Whether you are solo poly, partnered & poly or ENM, dating, or simply craving community, you belong here. | Lagos, Times Square →→→
6pm | Improv Principles: Level 1 Build confidence, sharpen your instincts, and learn the fundamentals of improv in a fun, supportive class series designed for beginners. Perfect for performers, creatives, or anyone ready to say yes, and to something new.🎭 | Ripley-Grier Studios, Hell’s Kitchen →→→
Tuesday, February 10
6pm | Queer Ballroom Beginner Series Discover the Joy of Ballroom! Dance in an inclusive, affirming space whether you’ve never danced before or you’re just a little nervous to start, our Queer Ballroom Beginner Series is the perfect place to take your first steps🌈💃. | Ripley-Grier Studios, Midtown West →→→
7pm | Queer Book Club: Sunburn This month, Queer Book Club will be reading Sunburn, an astute and tender portrayal of first love, adolescent anxiety, and the realities of growing up in a small town where tradition holds people tightly in its grasp. | Young Ethel’s, Park Slope →→→
7:30pm | Trivia Night Your favorite women-centered trivia night returns with smart questions and fun competition. | Wilka NYC, Williamsburg →→→
Wednesday, February 11
6:30pm | Meet Cute: A Matchmaking Mixer Looking for a boo, a new muse, or a meaningful connection? Join this playful community mixer designed to spark chemistry, creativity, and unexpected meet-cutes. Come solo or with friends and enjoy a night of conversation, connection, and queer magic in a cozy café-bar setting. ✨💬 | Boyfriend Co-op, Bushwick→→→
Thursday, February 12
7pm | Outclose: Thursday Dinner Connections Find your table, meet your people. Dinner with 4 LGBTQ+ strangers. Every Week. A place to belong shouldn’t be left to chance. Your table is intentionally matched for real connection. Sapphic only tables available. | Williamsburg or Chelsea →→→
7:30pm | Speed Dating for Straights Do you live in Ridgewood or within a few miles? Looking for love, friendship, or maybe new project partners? Whether you’re polyamorous or monogamous, this Straight(ish) speed dating event is for you! Forget dating apps- meet in person.💖✨ | Willows Tavern, Ridgewood →→→
Friday, February 13
7pm | Taste the Rainbow: Just Desserts On Friday the 13th of February, it’s time for some sweet revenge with the Taste the Rainbow: Just Desserts. It’s the day before Valentine’s 💝 and whether you’re hungry for a sweet something or a bloody steak to the heart, this queer drag and clown cabaret will definitely have something to whet your appetite! 🌈 | Brooklyn Art Haus, Williamsburg→→→
8pm | Lady Luck: Casino Cabaret Lady Luck is back—and this time, she’s landing just in time for Black History Month and Black Love Day. Expect a glamorous casino-cabaret night filled with games, performances, music, a full bar, and sapphic vibes all around. Dress lucky, play bold, and celebrate community, love, and indulgence in true cabaret style.💚♠️ | Gladys Books, Bed-Stuy →→→
9pm | Butch/Femme Valentine’s Day Slow Dance Slip into something sharp or sparkly and spend Valentine’s night slow dancing under the lights. A tender, timeless night for butch/femme connection, live jazz music, and late-night romance on the dance floor. 💘 | Parkside Lounge , Lower East Side →→→
10pm | Friend of a Friend: Valentine’s Night Out Celebrate Valentine’s Day with drinks, dancing, community, and karaoke at this brand-new queer-owned bar! Two karaoke rooms upstairs and a DJ with dance floor downstairs—come solo or with your partner and get a little messy (in the best way). 💖 . Let’s all fall in love this Valentine’s Day. 💋 | Beatbox, Chelsea →→→
10pm | Futch: Be Mine – Valentine’s Night Party Roses are femme, violets are butch—be our date this Valentine’s at Futch Night. A dreamy, flirty dance party celebrating queer love, sweat, and connection. Come ready to kiss, dance, and fall into the vibe with your crush or your crew. 💖✨ | House of Yes, Bushwick→→→
10pm | Love, Lust & Lingerie: Valentine’s Day Party Turn up the heat this Valentine’s💖 season with a night of tease, temptation, and unapologetic self-expression. Whether you’re single, taken, or it’s complicated—this party is for lovers, flirts, and fearless fashionistas alike. Slip into your hottest lingerie look and dance the night away in a dreamy pink haze of music, movement, and mischief. 💄🔥 | The Bush, Bushwick→→→
10:30pm | Galentines in the Hall: Preciosa Night DJ Preciosa • Dada Cozmic • NYC Rave Girls Celebrate Galentine’s with a multi-room takeover featuring three sapphic dance floors in one night. Preciosa Night, NYC Rave Girls, and Heart Beats bring electronic, rave, and perreo-heavy sounds for a full-spectrum queer party. 💘 | Elsewhere, East Williamsburg →→→
Saturday, February 14
7:30pm | Good Jewdy: Tu Bishvat a queer Jewish variety show celebrating Tu Bishvat, theJewish New Year for the Trees, through a night of drag, live performance, and ritual.Hosted by Harsh Babe and Chava Goodtime, the night blends camp, community, and nightlife while raising funds to support olive tree replanting in Palestine. | C’mon Everybody, Bedford-Stuyvesant →→→
2pm | Learn to Shuck with Lady Shuckers Join us for an interactive oyster shucking class! This beginner-friendly workshop covers safe shucking techniques, Maine aquaculture, and sustainable sourcing from women-led sea farms. Each guest receives a dozen oysters with classic accompaniments in a relaxed, welcoming environment. 🦪 | Ginger’s Bar, Park Slope →→→
3pm | Valentine’s Day Happy Hour Brooklyn’s HOTTEST Lesbian Party is celebrating Valentine’s Day with a flirty happy hour for all the QTBIPOC LUVers💕! Ice breakers, truth or dare games, secret love letter confessions, drink specials and more 💘Come kiss and tell! | Oberon, Bushwick →→→
8pm | CRUSH: A Sapphic NYC Valentine’s Soirée You are invited for an electric Valentine’s night of flirting, mingling, and connection with music, love readings, Cupid’s Quest scavenger hunt, secret admirer cards, and a killer photo booth. Dress in blacks, reds, pinks, and whites and come ready to spark something real beyond the apps.🌹❣️ | Saint James Libations, Bushwick →→→
8pm | The Guest Room Presents: Early Bloom An intimate Valentine’s💗 night of music, romance, and connection. Early Bloom celebrates new beginnings with cinematic vibes, immersive sound, and beautifully curated moments designed for conversation and shared presence. Sip complimentary refreshments and settle into a dreamy evening made for creatives, lovers, and kindred spirits. ✨ | Studio 1514, Crown Heights →→→
9pm | Life Itself Presents: Love Itself An official Playjacent™ Valentine’s party where nightlife, fashion, and desire collide. Featuring a fashion showcase by Amory Dinero, immersive installations, performances, vendors, beds, and a free open bar—this is a late-night celebration built for connection, play, and atmosphere. 💘✨| Available upon RSVP →→→
Sunday, February 15
4am | Sapphish™ A Sapphic-Led Afters | The Official Love Itself After Party Sapphish™ is a sapphic-led afters centering women, femmes, and sapphic energy as a continuation of Love Itself. The party carries on into the early morning with an open bar, a DJ on deck (unless women decide to take over the AUX), and a significantly expanded sapphic-only lounge. | Available upon RSVP →→→
Monday, February 16
6pm | Improv Principles: Level 1 Build confidence, sharpen your instincts, and learn the fundamentals of improv in a fun, supportive class series designed for beginners. Perfect for performers, creatives, or anyone ready to say yes, and to something new.🎭 | Ripley-Grier Studios, Hell’s Kitchen →→→
Tuesday, February 17
6pm | Queer Ballroom Beginner Series Discover the Joy of Ballroom! Dance in an inclusive, affirming space whether you’ve never danced before or you’re just a little nervous to start, our Queer Ballroom Beginner Series is the perfect place to take your first steps🌈💃. | Ripley-Grier Studios, Midtown West →→→
Thursday, February 19
7pm | Outclose: Thursday Dinner Connections Find your table, meet your people. Dinner with 4 LGBTQ+ strangers. Every Week. A place to belong shouldn’t be left to chance. Your table is intentionally matched for real connection. Sapphic only tables available. | Williamsburg or Chelsea →→→
Friday, February 20
10pm | Garrett & Allison’s Big Night A late-night stand-up and variety show packed with sharp jokes, big personalities, and electric energy. Come for the laughs, stay for the chaos. | Union Hall, Park Slope →→→
Sunday, February 22
1pm | Queer Clay With Me (All Ages) Get creative and cozy at this all-ages clay hangout for queer folks and chosen family. Come play with clay, make cute keepsakes, and connect in a warm, sober-friendly space. No experience needed—just bring your imagination and inner child. ✨🌈 | Principles BK Café, Williamsburg →→→
Tuesday, February 24
6pm | DesiLesbians NYC Game Afternoon Get scandalous, literary, and a little unhinged at this Oscar Wilde–inspired night of wit, drama, and decadent fun. Expect campy chaos, themed flair, and a crowd ready to flirt with art, excess, and genius ✨🍷. | Available upon RSVP→→→
6pm | Queer Ballroom Beginner Series Discover the Joy of Ballroom! Dance in an inclusive, affirming space whether you’ve never danced before or you’re just a little nervous to start, our Queer Ballroom Beginner Series is the perfect place to take your first steps🌈💃. | Ripley-Grier Studios, Midtown West →→→
9pm | Free & Inclusive Karaoke Night Grab the mic and sing your heart out at Park Slope’s most inclusive karaoke night. Hosted by DJ Dollhaus with The Kings of Karaoke—come for the songs, stay for the community vibes.🎶 | Sandy Jack’s, Park Slope →→→
Wednesday, February 25
7pm | Queer Speed Friending @ The Bush Meet new queer friends in a fun, low-pressure night of icebreakers, small-group chats, and creative activities—then stick around to mingle and hang out after. A perfect way to build community and connections.🌈💬 | The Bush, Bushwick→→→
Thursday, February 26
7pm | Outclose: Thursday Dinner Connections Find your table, meet your people. Dinner with 4 LGBTQ+ strangers. Every Week. A place to belong shouldn’t be left to chance. Your table is intentionally matched for real connection. Sapphic only tables available. | Williamsburg or Chelsea →→→
7:30pm | Speed Dating for Queers Do you live in Ridgewood or within a few miles? Looking for love, friendship, or maybe new project partners? Whether you’re polyamorous or monogamous, this Queer speed dating event is for you! Forget dating apps and meet people in person.💖✨ | Willows Tavern, Ridgewood →→→
Note: The above events are based on available information and are subject to change. Please verify details.
